Loneliness or Solitude

Are there differences?

Paul Tillich, who is a Theologian and Existentialist Philosopher said this: “Our language has created the word ‘loneliness’ to express the pain we feel while being alone. And it has also created the word ‘solitude’ to express the glory of being alone.’”

However, there is some evidence of a foregoing conclusion which history brings to the forefront the advent that many people seek solitude. One can merely point to and focus on the activities of mediation and yoga. As well as the time of reflection to seek ‘Inner Peace’

Such periods of solitude can help clear the mind to focus conversely. On the other hand, loneliness is a different type of a state-of-mind. Which brings on the feelings and emotions that tend to associate with sadness. And depending on the circumstances of the situation you may feel isolated and/or cut off from others.

That being said, you could possibly feel just as lonely in the midst of a crowd. Let me hasten to add, loneliness is nothing to be ashamed of, it’s somewhat natural to feel that way at certain times. Even those of us who have family and friends around and close can feel alone. Perhaps a key thought of consciousness is to not let such feelings take total control. Because, when loneliness occur it will not last forever- and it should not, you should be in control, and only let it have limited access.

I want to share some quotes taken from some famous and not so famous people here they are”

“Music was my refuge; I could crawl into a space between the notes and curl my back to the feeling of loneliness”

~Maya Angelou

“Loneliness is equal to the radius of one’s awareness”

~Yoko Ono

“When so many are lonely as seem to be lonely, it would be inexcusably selfish to be lonely alone”

~Tennessee Williams, Author & Play Right

“People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.”

~Joseph Fort Newton, Baptist Minister of the Clergy

“You can’t stay in your corner of the forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes”

~A.A. Milne ‘Winnie-the-Pooh’

Steve Braxton, Life Coach, Blogger, Ordained Minister, Orator & Hall of Fame Storeyteller & Author of non-fiction Books.